Podcast Episode 136: Arranged Marriage is Not All Bad but here are some Cons to it

by Bob

If you were struggling to find a wife, how do you feel about an arranged marriage? Would it matter who helped select that woman? If you trusted someone to arrange your marriage would you do it? How important would it be to you to know what she looked like? Do you know someone who you could trust to make a good selection for you?

Please subscribe to Casting Beyond The Sea, a channel rated 4M for Mature Marriage Minded Men. I needed to break this topic into two podcasts-one today with the cons and a previous one covered the pros. Videos can be seen on Love Beyond The Sea and my website is called lvbts.com.

After working on this topic, this will need to be filed in the Controversial Collection Playlist on my YouTube channel. I will never be Mr. Popular because I only care about telling the world what they need to know, not what they want to hear.

In the last podcast I covered 7 pros to an arranged marriage, today are 11 cons, that come from an article I will link for you in the description box. As someone who labored for 30, count ‘em 30 years to find a wife, I wonder what I would have thought at the idea of an arranged marriage all those years ago. I might have said yes to the idea if I was guaranteed some level of sexual interest in a woman, but all in all, it comes down to leading, being compassionate, being unselfish, being forgiving, and things like that, for the man regardless of how the marriage was enacted.

After doing the last video, I gained a little respect for the idea of an arranged marriage. Let’s see how I feel after these 11 cons.

https://connectusfund.org/18-arranged-marriage-pros-and-cons Article for today’s podcast

https://youtu.be/LTF-X5DHFd4 Marriage Skills Matter More than Knowing the Filipina you Marry

https://youtu.be/RFMZZF069_Q How Long Does it Take to Know a Filipina Part 1

https://youtu.be/I5pbQKJeO6k How Long Does it Take to Know a Filipina Part 2

Intro & Outro
Night In Venice by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5763-night-in-venice
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Smooth Lovin by Kevin MacLeod
Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/4379-smooth-lovin
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