Today I want to talk a little bit about the need to stay focused when you decide you are going to look for a wife overseas. I heard from people who were outside the church and in the church to either avoid marriage or that it isn’t all that it is cracked up to be, that it is hard, hard work and you won’t have sex a whole lot. There were times I didn’t think I was getting much support to find a wife. You can't allow yourself to get sidetracked. Negative voices want to hold you back.