I’m going to be hitting some topics from a longer upload I made in response to an article called Sex-free marriage anyone? Welcome to the new trend for the wokeys: marrying your best friend. Would you want to sign up for that? I don’t think this is marriage at all. Evidently some people think they can improve on God’s idea of marriage; that it is somehow deficient, but marriage as the Bible describes it, is the grace of life, the very best. Today I want to continue to talk about sexless marriage or more appropriately sex free marriage. I have been making the case that when you marry, sex is an obligation. It is also a great pleasure and gift a husband and wife give to each other. Here is a comment from the video that I will link in the description box.
“You can also have sex with whoever the hell you like whenever the hell you feel like it. Anyone, that is, except your chosen spouse – that’s not allowed.”
This is what you get when people try to define what marriage is and what its roles are; something that will end in disaster. The word spouse doesn’t even fit here as that is not how you treat a spouse. This is just insanity. This sounds like something you’d find in the Satanic bible to me. Here is something to think about when it comes to having sex with someone that is not your spouse as suggested in that comment-
1 Corinthians 6:9
Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals,
“The eye of the adulterer waits for the twilight,
Saying, ‘No eye will see me.’
And he disguises his face.
The one who commits adultery with a woman is lacking sense;
He who would destroy himself does it.
You shall not have intercourse with your neighbor’s wife, to be defiled with her.
“If a man is found lying with a married woman, then both of them shall die, the man who lay with the woman, and the woman; thus you shall purge the evil from Israel.
‘If there is a man who commits adultery with another man’s wife, one who commits adultery with his friend’s wife, the adulterer and the adulteress shall surely be put to death.
“If there is a girl who is a virgin engaged to a man, and another man finds her in the city and lies with her, then you shall bring them both out to the gate of that city and you shall stone them to death; the girl, because she did not cry out in the city, and the man, because he has violated his neighbor’s wife. Thus you shall purge the evil from among you. “But if in the field the man finds the girl who is engaged, and the man forces her and lies with her, then only the man who lies with her shall die.
There are three things which are too wonderful for me, Four which I do not understand: The way of an eagle in the sky, The way of a serpent on a rock, The way of a ship in the middle of the sea, And the way of a man with a maid. This is the way of an adulterous woman: She eats and wipes her mouth, And says, "I have done no wrong."
“You shall not commit adultery.
Jesus Christ died on the cross to pardon us from any kind of sin. That is the only way any of us will have absolution from all of our millions of sins. If you know you are hurting yourself with any of these aberrant relationships, by all means, let God forgive you and show you the way. You were not born for the abuse of these unnatural relationships.
This video is about the many kinds of aberrations of marriage and that includes adultery. I think anytime what you are doing is outside of the norm of the Bible, you should ask yourself if there is a reason why. Normal is normal for a reason. Abnormal is abnormal for a reason. Heterosexual monogamous relationships capped by the very best kind, marriage, provides the very best benefits, when the man and woman truly love each other and understand that means total commitment. Other aberrations to marriage are stigmatized for a good reason-they are not normal. Beyond that, I am concerned for what is right and what is best.
The Bible warns us to avoid anything outside of marriage. It’s really pretty simple-get married, stay married, please each other physically to avoid sexual sin, try to have children, at least one. Be a blessing to each other. Marriage is a picture of Christ and the church. That is a huge truth that can not be duplicated in any other type of romantic relationship. God invented marriage, he invented man and woman and immediately, before the day was up, put them together as husband and wife. That is the norm, that is the only way to do it. That is my opinion based on the Bible and the Bible contains no error and is a perfect document without contradictions. Only the unlearned find “contradictions”
Here are some examples of aberrant relationships. I mention these because like the bizarre idea of platonic marriage, there are plenty of other ones that will end in catastrophe. They are polyamorous the fact or practice of being romantically or sexually involved with more than one person with the knowledge and consent of all parties), cohabitation which is two people living together as if married, but they are not married, platonic parenting in “marriage”, same sex marriage, polygamy (marrying multiple spouses), polyandry, that’s a wife with more than one husband, and polygny which is a husband with more than one wife.
What can a person duped into thinking these are good things expect eventually? Cheating, jealousy, confusion and heartache. Why is there a movement to delegitimize marriage and invent something supposedly better? It could be because some people don’t like having God tell them what to do. It could be that they think they are actually smarter than God himself. It may be they are very easily led astray because they are foolish. Maybe they have no confidence they can stay married or no one can stay married to them, they don’t trust any women anymore, consider them all the same, and have no interest in getting divorced again.
Getting married is not without some risk, what is? There is a way to treat each other that should lead to a life-long marriage. I have many videos about many subjects on Love Beyond The Sea. I am married by the way. We all don’t know what God says is right or wrong unless we believe his word is truth, and there is also that thing called a conscience.
Platonic marriage, the latest distortion of marriage is just plain wrong and I hate to think of what the next distortion of marriage will be. Throughout it all, I will continue to beat the drum for marriage on Love Beyond The Sea.